Friday, Feb 14, 2025

Falling in love with a home is a lot like falling in love with a person. At first, everything feels perfect—the fresh paint, the charming details, the way the sunlight hits the living room just right. But over time, little annoyances creep in. The kitchen that once felt cozy now feels cramped. The charm of an older home is overshadowed by ongoing repairs. Or maybe life has simply changed, and the home that once fit your needs no longer does.
So how do you know when to rekindle the love for your home—and when it’s time to move on? If you’re feeling unsure, here are some key signs to help you decide.

The 80% Rule: Why Perfection Isn’t the Goal

No home is perfect, but if you love about 80% of your home, you’re in a great spot! The other 20%? That’s where small adjustments, mindset shifts, or renovations come into play.

Ask yourself:

✔ Do I still love most of my home?

✔ Do the things that bother me have simple solutions?

✔ Could small changes help me feel more content?

If you answered “yes,” you may not need a new home—just a new perspective.

Can You Learn to Love Your Home Again?
Before making a big move, consider these ways to fall back in love with your home:
• Shift Your Perspective – Instead of seeing what’s wrong, focus on what’s right.
• Make Small Upgrades – A fresh coat of paint or new lighting can make a big difference.
• Embrace the Emotional Connection – Your home holds memories that can’t be replaced.

When It’s Time to Move
Sometimes, no amount of fresh paint or gratitude can change the fact that a home no longer fits your life. Here are some clear signs it might be time to go:

• Your needs have changed (family growth, empty nest, job relocation).
• The costs of upkeep or renovations are overwhelming.
• You feel stuck or constantly dream of moving.
• Your location no longer works for your lifestyle.
• You’re unhappy more than you’re happy in your home.

How to Make a Wise Move
If you’re ready for a change, here’s what to do next:
1 Make a Love List – Write down what you must have in your next home.
2 Get an Equity Review – Understand your financial position.
3 Get Pre-Approved – Know your budget before you start house hunting.
4 Work with Experts – The right guidance makes all the difference.

Clarity Brings Confidence
Whether you decide to stay or move, clarity is key. Need help figuring out your next step? Reach out to the Dekker Team today, and let’s walk through your options together. Because when you move wisely, you build wealth wisely.